Mercedes A asked:
I found a place not to far i share a kitchen and bath with 2 other ladies..part of me is excited and happy cause i don’t have to go through anymore mental abuse(he is manic depressive and will not take his meds)..but of course another part of me is a little scared..i don’t know why i am scared just am..why do u think i am a little scared?..is this normal?..by the way the place i got includes everything.with my rent..i pay 125 a wk..i get my own bedroom my own living room furniture is all included plus 2 ceiling fans..plus cable tv.om site laundry ( coin operated)never have to worry about snow removal.or mowing the lawn plus u get your own parking space…plus on thrusdays i get maid service…do u think i also found the right place to live?.
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I found a place not to far i share a kitchen and bath with 2 other ladies..part of me is excited and happy cause i don’t have to go through anymore mental abuse(he is manic depressive and will not take his meds)..but of course another part of me is a little scared..i don’t know why i am scared just am..why do u think i am a little scared?..is this normal?..by the way the place i got includes everything.with my rent..i pay 125 a wk..i get my own bedroom my own living room furniture is all included plus 2 ceiling fans..plus cable tv.om site laundry ( coin operated)never have to worry about snow removal.or mowing the lawn plus u get your own parking space…plus on thrusdays i get maid service…do u think i also found the right place to live?.
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December 30th, 2008 at 12:32 pm
your scared to be on your own and away from the abuse. You got so used to being abused that is all you think you need.
January 1st, 2009 at 3:12 pm
Only you can answer if it is the right place for you to live. I think your scared because you have been living with someone for 6 years and you are not stepping out on your own. Its a scary thing. Good Luck!
January 5th, 2009 at 11:45 am
i think you’ll do fine, sounds like a nice place
January 8th, 2009 at 12:30 am
Sounds really good.
P.S. I love your avatar!!!!!!
January 9th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
lets look at the good that comes with the move. then you have your answer. I wouldnt even think about it twice. Get away from a man who messes wit your mind. FIND YOURSELF AGAIN< AND ENJOY THE PEEEEEEAAAAAACCCCCEEE!
January 11th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
Hell yeah I would take maid service once a week over manic depression, any day. And your just nervous because it’s new and you have grown use to this life you shared with your ex. Move on sounds like it is best. Good luck.
January 14th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
you are probably scared because it is a big change after 6 years, it’s to be expected…and if you are happy with the place you got then you have found the right place…
January 16th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
It’s PERFECTLY normal. Fear of change is something everyone goes through and you’ve nothing to be embarassed or ashamed of.
Good Luck!
January 17th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
Change can be frightening. You sound like you are doing what’s best anyway. Don’t worry about feeling afraid, it’s normal and will clear up soon.(especially living in the new place-sounds like a bargain @ 125!)
Best of luck
January 18th, 2009 at 8:59 am
As long as it’s in a great neighborhood, you’ve got a great place from the sounds of it. The decor is what you need to worry about next–if you like it or not since it’s not yours and you will need to keep it the way it is.
You’re scared because you’ve been living with your boyfriend for six years. That’s completely and utterly normal. If you were just fine with leaving, I would admire your strength but wonder at where you got such a superhuman capability. All in all, you’re doing the right thing and being scared doesn’t change that. Good job, girl! You go!
January 21st, 2009 at 4:32 pm
sounds like you found a great place for you to stay I would not worry eventually he will move on but if your scared try not to be in direct contact with him unless you have someone accompany you
January 24th, 2009 at 6:54 am
sounds good. If it were me I would hop on the opportunity to live there. But anyway it is normal to be scared because you are making a big change in your life and moving on. You do need to move on though. Don’t waiste anymore of your time. Move on to bigger and better things.
January 26th, 2009 at 9:47 pm
Change scares everyone. As far as your living arrangements, sounds great! The only fear I would have is living with two other people. Especially if I did not know them. They are women too? Women can be so caddy. I would rather live with two men. (lol)
January 27th, 2009 at 3:57 pm
Yes, it is very normal to be a tad scared. You have had this person by your side , good or bad, for 6 years. You are starting a new chapter of your life on your own with no help from your parents or a bf, and yes I think your getting a great deal for your money. Good luck and be strong, you’ll make it.
January 28th, 2009 at 4:05 am
its normal to be scared because its a drastic change and you are not sure where things are headed BUT you do know that you had to leave. KNowing that was key and you are dealing with it. Is this the right place to live? Well for right now yes it is. you like it have some company, place for your stuff, and not have to worry much about upkeep. Might want your own place later or share it with other people.
January 31st, 2009 at 6:41 am
I think you have found a wonderful place, and I think you will really enjoy it.
I can understand why you’re feeling what you’re feeling. I mean, common, life is an adventure! And you’re about to start an entirely new part of that adventure! New friends (hopefully), new suroundings, new place to live. It’s all uber shibby, isn’t it?
Likewise, scared makes sense. For one thing you don’t have to put up with the mental abuse anymore (if you continue to feel scared, I would greatly suggest seeing a councellor of some kind. You may have issues you’ll need to work out). But also, like I said, you’re starting a new section of your life. Before, while you may have had mental abuse, you more or less knew what to expect. Now you’re starting off on something entirely different. Life is new here. That alone is enough to make someone a little nervous and scared, don’t you think?
However, good luck!
February 1st, 2009 at 10:06 pm
Everyone gets scared when they are moving some where new and starting a new chapter in there lives,that’s totally normal.Sounds like you’ve found the right place to start anew as well.good luck in your new home and with your new life